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naiad(she/her or they/them)
naiad(she/her or they/them)
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naiad

I have some deep trauma involving washing dishes and it's honestly really stupid but I'm so tired of washing them and I'm super grossed out by sponges/cleaning brushes and I keep getting into positions where I'm hungry but my desire to eat isn't as strong as my desire to not do dishes and it's also totally unreasonable to make my husband wash them every time when he works 40-50 hour weeks and I work 12 hours a week

naiad

@astr0

i think i do have some gloves somwhere and that helps tbh. i just used to have to do allll of our dishes and and it had to be in one sink of water and no one in my family rinsed anything. so there was always just food chunks floating in the water and my mom NEVER wanted to get new sponges so we'd always have these disgsting tattered, smelly sponges because she didn't believe in boiling them or microwaving them because "sponges don't get dirty you use soap on them" and even with gloves it's hard to get all that old stuff out of my head about it

i think i will try to find where i put them last though cause it would help me enough to at leas wash enough for dinner tonight ^^



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